-a dAy OuT oF ciTy-
Had been away from the city for the weekend... And alot have been thought about life... And also problems that occurred since the beginning of the year.... Things i have ignore to think about because i was worried i would come out with an irrational solution... But i finally got the courage to do so...
Along the way to the country side,i saw things we would never notice even in the city...
It was about a few old indian man doing their job even it was already 5 some thing , going to be 6 on a Saturday evening... As for us city people, when Friday comes, we would be very exited even on the Thursday night it self, thinking that tomorrow would be the last day of the week to work... And at 4.30 or 5 for some, would start packing their bags happily leave the office to go back and spend time with their family or if not they would head to a club for happy hour...
Where else those living in the rural or suburban area, they would still have to prepare to wake up early in the morning the next day to work to earn extra for the family or some worst just to make ends meet for the day...
For this , those living in the urban area but who's not that rich- middle class- tends to have the uncontenment with what they have and yet still complain about things that don't have!!!
Another thing i realise that applies very well in life is that when some thing pass, you will never get the same chance again... I realise this when i wanted to take pictures on the sceneries but i was a second late, not even a single thing i caught... And i thought to my self, hem.. *may be i would get it late along the way, but as roads were drive though, it never happened, you might see the thing you first wanted to take, but it will never look the same as the first one you saw...
Therefore, if you don't cease the chance given, you will never get it again... *so better treasure what you are given now before you loose it and regret later... Chances never come twice the same...
The most important thing i realise in this trip away is that, you should try harder in every thing you do, but make sure you do it in a sincere way... The thought just came when i was taking care of my baby little cousin... All this while when she(my cute baby little cousin) came visiting us no matter how hard i try to make her smile, she just won't.... She would smile to every one on the earth but just not me... And i gave up trying to make her smile when i failed the second time... But i realise, i was actually wrong... She did smile to me when i was taking care of her during the weekend... She not only smile at me , she even played with me, talked to me.... And it was because i tried hard this time, and i can tell you, i have failed 5 times it self just this round...And she finally smiled.... This is the result you get when you have try hard...This is the same as in ever thing we do, when we have the intention to do some thing, make sure you do it with all you heart... Be it studies, career.... Its the same.... When you have try hard, even if you don't get the results you one, the satisfaction is there... It shows that at least you try hard... I have heard this a lot of times and guess what? it was from my mom... But i never took her words into account... But now i finally realise the important of putting you heart and soul in doing some things you intend to do... Its always hard to accept when you're not in the situation, but when you have come across it, you will know that that's what people have gone through... And that is when you would know that what the person tell you all this while is actually true....
This trip back is an relaxing yet wakening trip for me... And i can tell you ever since my grandmother pass away, i really haven't been back for long... Really missed the place... It gives back memories when my grandmother was still alive... And the house is always a place you can cry your heart out... No body would bother you... The shore is just a walk away , the paddy is just a drive away... Its a free place and a place that no body knows you, so need not to worry about any one who would recognise you there... So soothing, so relaxing... But this is all temporary, reality still has to come back... And not i'm back in the world where life's a struggle which is filled with competition and pretentiousness.... Its always good to have a day or two out from this place.....
Looking forward to go there soon again.........
Along the way to the country side,i saw things we would never notice even in the city...
It was about a few old indian man doing their job even it was already 5 some thing , going to be 6 on a Saturday evening... As for us city people, when Friday comes, we would be very exited even on the Thursday night it self, thinking that tomorrow would be the last day of the week to work... And at 4.30 or 5 for some, would start packing their bags happily leave the office to go back and spend time with their family or if not they would head to a club for happy hour...
Where else those living in the rural or suburban area, they would still have to prepare to wake up early in the morning the next day to work to earn extra for the family or some worst just to make ends meet for the day...
For this , those living in the urban area but who's not that rich- middle class- tends to have the uncontenment with what they have and yet still complain about things that don't have!!!
Another thing i realise that applies very well in life is that when some thing pass, you will never get the same chance again... I realise this when i wanted to take pictures on the sceneries but i was a second late, not even a single thing i caught... And i thought to my self, hem.. *may be i would get it late along the way, but as roads were drive though, it never happened, you might see the thing you first wanted to take, but it will never look the same as the first one you saw...
Therefore, if you don't cease the chance given, you will never get it again... *so better treasure what you are given now before you loose it and regret later... Chances never come twice the same...
The most important thing i realise in this trip away is that, you should try harder in every thing you do, but make sure you do it in a sincere way... The thought just came when i was taking care of my baby little cousin... All this while when she(my cute baby little cousin) came visiting us no matter how hard i try to make her smile, she just won't.... She would smile to every one on the earth but just not me... And i gave up trying to make her smile when i failed the second time... But i realise, i was actually wrong... She did smile to me when i was taking care of her during the weekend... She not only smile at me , she even played with me, talked to me.... And it was because i tried hard this time, and i can tell you, i have failed 5 times it self just this round...And she finally smiled.... This is the result you get when you have try hard...This is the same as in ever thing we do, when we have the intention to do some thing, make sure you do it with all you heart... Be it studies, career.... Its the same.... When you have try hard, even if you don't get the results you one, the satisfaction is there... It shows that at least you try hard... I have heard this a lot of times and guess what? it was from my mom... But i never took her words into account... But now i finally realise the important of putting you heart and soul in doing some things you intend to do... Its always hard to accept when you're not in the situation, but when you have come across it, you will know that that's what people have gone through... And that is when you would know that what the person tell you all this while is actually true....
This trip back is an relaxing yet wakening trip for me... And i can tell you ever since my grandmother pass away, i really haven't been back for long... Really missed the place... It gives back memories when my grandmother was still alive... And the house is always a place you can cry your heart out... No body would bother you... The shore is just a walk away , the paddy is just a drive away... Its a free place and a place that no body knows you, so need not to worry about any one who would recognise you there... So soothing, so relaxing... But this is all temporary, reality still has to come back... And not i'm back in the world where life's a struggle which is filled with competition and pretentiousness.... Its always good to have a day or two out from this place.....
Looking forward to go there soon again.........
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