FRIENDS - CHAPTER 2 *i think*
Some thing that I have said to my sister kept me thinking again.It was something about friends. Yes,you're hearing it again... FRIENDS. She had trouble with one of her friends a few days ago. N when she came consulting me about it, i told her that , if she(the friend)still insist on the same thing, just walk off. N start distancing your self from her. N i told her that, she only does that if she thinks that the friendship is no longer worth it to "prolong"*a better word*, sh also needs to be strong n not soft hearted... Friends comes ,friends go any way, so why bother one who's not worth it at all???
So any way, back to the topic again....
Some times, when you want to criticize about your friend, think about it, what is the point when you keep complaining & complaining that she's too this , she's too that, she shouldn't this , she should be like that....
Does that sound familiar to you? Ok, if it does, think about what i am about to say. What is the hassle to keep complaining when you know that the only option is to either bare with it or just leave her alone, which means stop being friends or if not a hi,bye friend?
*let me put it in a simpler way to be understand*
If you think you can't stand that friend of yours,leave him or her , don't just keep complaining that you can't stand him or her. This world is not just about 1 friend. Since you want perfectionism, go n find one that would suit the category. Dumb.
I just some how can't stand people like that. They just irritates me to the max. It's not like the friend you can not stand only have you as a friend. PLS, n if you want to complain about other people,go n examine your self first. LOOK IN TO THE MIRROR. You're not that better off only after all.
Talking about friends, do you call your self a friend when you don't even bother your friend if she /he is able to cope with work, they would make it the best that they didn't hear what you were asking, n make you ask the rest of your friends who you less keep in touch with? N the best part is that they think that you deserve it when you are absent. Even those hi, bye friend are more concern that the so call TRUE friend...
One thing i hate the most about friends is that not being honest with one another. N pls do not expect me to be honest with you ,when you're not at all. Telling some thing ,you tell most of your true friends??? Using the same line to please both side??? Think i'm stupid of what? Come on, i'm not a three year old kid that doesn't know. It's just a BLOODY excuse. FUCK OFF. I do not need you to stay by my side to make me WORST. I know that i'm not perfect as well, but hey at least i'm starting some where.
Last thing,*for now i guess* If you don't like this friend of yours telling you about her stuff, do you think you should not tell her yours also? You might not like it, your friend might also not like it TOO...
N its too late to mend the broken heart, its broken, do you think you can do any thing to it? It's the same as when the things is broken, its already consider sold..... It's the same theory.... N you can not have the cake n eat it... Choose a side, you can't please both side.... This is one lesson i would like all readers to learn, you will loose even more friends....
N don't use a friend when you need them n when you got your usual friend back n you dump the one that made it up to you when you were alone... It sucks to max to have being treated this way... I bet you do hope that no body treats you this way as well...
But its ok, i won't do the same back just to let you feel how i felt...
I would just take it as a lesson n keep it to my self....
*PLS- you will know if your the one i'm talking about.. But pls don't jump to conclusion ya.Comments are welcome any way. N this is some thing i feel inside that can not settle down by it self, therefore here i am blogging it out. N telling some one specific is worst as i do not know who i can trust now already. The one you think is best is in fact the one that's back stabbing you.... BEWARE..........
So any way, back to the topic again....
Some times, when you want to criticize about your friend, think about it, what is the point when you keep complaining & complaining that she's too this , she's too that, she shouldn't this , she should be like that....
Does that sound familiar to you? Ok, if it does, think about what i am about to say. What is the hassle to keep complaining when you know that the only option is to either bare with it or just leave her alone, which means stop being friends or if not a hi,bye friend?
*let me put it in a simpler way to be understand*
If you think you can't stand that friend of yours,leave him or her , don't just keep complaining that you can't stand him or her. This world is not just about 1 friend. Since you want perfectionism, go n find one that would suit the category. Dumb.
I just some how can't stand people like that. They just irritates me to the max. It's not like the friend you can not stand only have you as a friend. PLS, n if you want to complain about other people,go n examine your self first. LOOK IN TO THE MIRROR. You're not that better off only after all.
Talking about friends, do you call your self a friend when you don't even bother your friend if she /he is able to cope with work, they would make it the best that they didn't hear what you were asking, n make you ask the rest of your friends who you less keep in touch with? N the best part is that they think that you deserve it when you are absent. Even those hi, bye friend are more concern that the so call TRUE friend...
One thing i hate the most about friends is that not being honest with one another. N pls do not expect me to be honest with you ,when you're not at all. Telling some thing ,you tell most of your true friends??? Using the same line to please both side??? Think i'm stupid of what? Come on, i'm not a three year old kid that doesn't know. It's just a BLOODY excuse. FUCK OFF. I do not need you to stay by my side to make me WORST. I know that i'm not perfect as well, but hey at least i'm starting some where.
Last thing,*for now i guess* If you don't like this friend of yours telling you about her stuff, do you think you should not tell her yours also? You might not like it, your friend might also not like it TOO...
N its too late to mend the broken heart, its broken, do you think you can do any thing to it? It's the same as when the things is broken, its already consider sold..... It's the same theory.... N you can not have the cake n eat it... Choose a side, you can't please both side.... This is one lesson i would like all readers to learn, you will loose even more friends....
N don't use a friend when you need them n when you got your usual friend back n you dump the one that made it up to you when you were alone... It sucks to max to have being treated this way... I bet you do hope that no body treats you this way as well...
But its ok, i won't do the same back just to let you feel how i felt...
I would just take it as a lesson n keep it to my self....
*PLS- you will know if your the one i'm talking about.. But pls don't jump to conclusion ya.Comments are welcome any way. N this is some thing i feel inside that can not settle down by it self, therefore here i am blogging it out. N telling some one specific is worst as i do not know who i can trust now already. The one you think is best is in fact the one that's back stabbing you.... BEWARE..........
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