What does it mean by friendship !

In every chapter of life, there's sure some thing that you will learn. This is what I found out to be so true . Just as I thought that lesson would end just when you enter college or university, it turn out to be that I still learn about friendship and how to deal with people. Some times, even when you think that what you did is right , you're being blamed for it. And instead of voicing it out , I choose to keep it quiet . The reason is probably so what if I win this argument , will it bring me to be in a happier state?



And the fact that I know I used to be very confrontatious about any thing, if i do not like the way you do thing, I would tell you straight. But now, a different thinking I have now. This is probably because I think no body is perfect so why do I blame people for what they have done wrong?



The past month, I was pretty much down with friendship problems too. And I figured it out that , why do I even care? It could be that they are wrong. But who are you to judge? And who are you to say that they are wrong when there is nobody in this world that was born perfect !



That was when I learn to let things go as it is.



And at times, I just feel that this friendship that we all have just brings more problems that good. You have to care about not hurting others feelings and make sure that you say the right thing.



Well , just as I thought I should change for every one or any one, I realise that i was wrong. true friends would take in the bad side of their friends and adapt the good. If you think you can't do that , just leave and be acquaintance. That's probably going to make you and me happier.


-out-

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